Is it possible to be an NPG (non practicing gay) and have privileges? Ever since I was little I've been attracted to other males. I've dated girls but I just feel no romantic connection to them. After many failed relationships I've decided to live my life in this system as asexual. Mind you I have never acted on my tendencies and I would very much like to pioneer and eventually like to make it into the traveling work. Do you think my situation will allow me to, Will I have to tell the elders?